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Originally posted by ZTAngel
If you don't trust someone, then why stay with them? It takes a lot more effort and stress to stalk your significant other or hack into their email/cell phone records. Plus it's illegal, creepy, and kinda psycho. If you're at the point where you feel that you need to keep tabs on your SO at all times, maybe you should just break up with them and go find someone that you trust. Love = Trust so how can these people say they love someone if they don't even trust them? It's like their lives have become so consumed with tracking down their SO and making sure she's not cheating. I think it's time for them to get a life that doesn't revolve around making sure their SO is remaining faithful.
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Yea, but how do you know who to trust and when to trust them and how much trust to give them? Take Rachel for example....you know her. I trusted her more than any other girl...and look where that got me. Even you know that I busted her flirting online with another dude, but I let it slide thinking I did the same thing with DGqueen17 on here. I didnt persue that matter any further and I quit going to that website she was on....i never even told her i knew it. I gave everything to that girl and and she pissed on my trust. She tried to make it better but once its broke its broke. I even gave her a 2nd chance and she pissed that one away. Its liek I'm finding that if you trust a girl and dont do the things we're doing right now.....the only thing that happens is girls take you for a fool and screw you over. The only time they remain faithful is when you act like you dont care......its a front you put up but all the while you're keepin tabs on them.
ETA: I know for a fact most guys keep tabs on their girl...maybe not hiring private detectives to keep tabs on them, but still keeping tabs does happen more than most women realize.