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Soror AKA_Monet, professionally I truly agree with what you posted.
However, as someone who is currently planning a wedding and COUNTING EVERY SINGLE GUEST I will add a few possibilities others might not have considered.
1)She might not be even expecting you to come and placed you in the "will invite/doubt attendance" group anyway and your attendance/invitation acceptance may throw off her count and
2) would probably appreciate you not going if you don't want to be there. Weddings are expensive, in DC they cost about $80-$100 bucks a person (thank God I'm getting married in TX) and if she is like me she only wants at her wedding, people who want to be there. So, I think a respectful declining might be appreciated and she can bump up someone from her "B" list who truly wants to come and will appreciate taking part.
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