[AKA_Monet]

Given the nature of my Soror Ideal's career and what she has to put up with, if she fails to go and participate with a happy smile on her face it will have broad repercussions on furthering her career aspirations... Folks will be talking about her behind back and in front of her face... The boss recognizes the kinna chit, too...

So, I would lavish all the "love" (even if it's fake and phony) that I can muster up, get her the best kind of gift one could ever have with the little porno string for the bridal shower--tastefully done of course. Hug her with the utmost of happiness and let her KNOW, you are "ON" to her "GAME"... She won't squelch you out of the game because she knows you take it personal when she acts a biatch...

That would be a poor career move on your part if you allow these fools to get the best of you lak dat dere...

You never know, at the wedding you might be able to lend the "ear of the boss" and let him know about so sheistyness going on at the office...

Then trounce up with the best wedding cheer salute and teach these Mo'fo's how to do the electric slide or whatever is now done these days...

That's my opinion... Besides, it's winner takes all... Do or die...