Sounds like she's playing the whole "different area-code" thing
But doesn't want to lose the "primary" or major league BF (which of course makes you the minor league one) - my advice: drop it and find someone that considers you the sole proprietor of her heart - or at least the primary/major league BF...
PS>john1082 must you cause pain by bringing up the NHL lock-out? You don't know how much that cuts