Some advice for someone who has been this girl....stick with it for a while. She is most likely very confused and trying to figure her mind out, plus she is probably trying to have "the best of both worlds". Stick with it if you think it's worth it!
I recently was in this situation, the old boyfriend is now long gone, and I am in a wonderful new relationship with the guy who waited patiently and helped me figure out my head. Treat her as if you were dating or in a relationship, if that is what you want to do, and if she doesn't object. That is probably the quickest way to help her decide on her course of action because she will see who is really the guy for her...the guy that is still trying!
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