Well yeah, but college isn't necessarily the place where you lie, cheat, and steal to get it "out of your system" so that when you graduate you magically become someone trustworthy.
She could have left the boy if she was unhappy with him. I see nothing noble in experimenting with breaking your word in a cruelly malicious way that involves an elaborate deception on some unsuspecting guy. It happens but its certainly not esteemable.
I hope you are at least having sex with her as a price for dealing with the agravation of listening to her self-inflicted problem.
As far as them breaking up, well . . . hell . .. you are banging the guy's girl friend. Or course you are a factor in their break-up. Are you just silly? If you back off you are still a factor in their break-up. If you just went away . . you would still be part of it.
If she is having sex with you, you don't really need her to break it up off with him . . . unless you think the sex will dry up?
Here is one lesson to take away with you. If you are both ever going through a rough time, or she feels like she needs more attention . . . she will cheat on you before she breaks up with you.
Have fun with it.
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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
IMHO I think that college is a time to have fun and figure out who you are, and exactly who you want to be with. I highly doubt that you are the only contributing factor to her break-up so I wouldn't feel too bad. I hope things work out, but if not, don't worry about it too much. Have fun and remember that you have lots of time ahead of you to meet "the right girl" even if she isn't the one .
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