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WTF is going on here??????
I am a straight male and I think both you guys are si..ys.
It burns me up to see us black men as having to prove our sexuality. It seems like we automatically have to prove ourselves or fight off suspicion. Like one woman posted on another thread "Treat them as gay until proven straight", what is that about!!!
I think all the media hype and urband legend about gay and DL brothers have burned an imagine into womens minds. Its just another stereotype of the black male that we have to fight. I do acknowledge the fact that there is a population of black men where those behavios exist. And that the rise in HIV/AIDS in black women is an issue. However, it is not fair to have prejudices against black men because of all of the stories that your "girlfriends" have told.
So speaking on behalf of straight brothers in regards to this topic: It seems that you are very gay. If this guy was straight, he would have never even hung out with you to the point where people would have thought that the two of you were "together". You guys would have gone to lunch sometimes but thats it.
Here is a general rule: No straight guy will ever hang out with a gay guy so much that people will tend to think they are together. Our mindset is we can kick it as co-workers, but "keep it movin...shauty!"
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