[DPhiU]

Thank you ladies for your unbiased, honest opinions. AKA2D '91, yes it has been quite a while since I last posted. Good to know that I have not been forgotten. Thank you for not deleting my post. I now live in Barbados, so my life is devoid of any fraternal activity.

I guess I should have stated that I am a male. Good to see that I'm not losing my gaydar as I get older. I too suspect that he is very gay, but he is afraid to accept that fact. After all, we live in the caribbean, where life/culture is not as progressive as it is in the States. He has always dated women and I suspect that is because that is what was expected of him. It's kinda funny that everyone thinks that he is gay, except HIM. Even my mom thought that there was something between us when she came to visit. But like I said, there has never been anything directly sexual.

This guy is a psychologist's dream. He's so deep in denial and full of contradictions and as a psychology major, I find him to be an interesting study. Having been in the States my whole life, it's hard for me to understand why or how anyone could be so afraid of being who they are. But then again, it's a different culture here. I wish people like him came with a little switch that you could just flip and presto....

Although I am into psychology, I tend to follow my heart more often than my head, and my heart is leading me to him. I think I'll stick it out and see where it leads.

Again ladies, thank you for your gracious replies. Keep 'em coming. You have again shown me that I am right in telling my sister that the day she pledges DST is the day I drop dead!!! NO DISRESPECT for DST, but hey, AKA is the way.