IMHO I think that college is a time to have fun and figure out who you are, and exactly who you want to be with. I highly doubt that you are the only contributing factor to her break-up so I wouldn't feel too bad. I hope things work out, but if not, don't worry about it too much. Have fun and remember that you have lots of time ahead of you to meet "the right girl" even if she isn't the one
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