ok, I am so late in reading this, but i wanted to say something too
We too have had a similar problem on our campus with other greek groups, but what we found to help us, is to just so support anyway, my group decided "hey we are all greek" kinda theory so we try to show love for all the groups on campus, although, some hate very hard on locals and MC groups. It worked out though for us, cause I believe when outsiders see how you approach the situation they give u a little more credit for coming out and supporting others when they are playing the hating game. So they see u in a better lite. We also try to do events with the other groups, but we make sure we make a special effort to invite all the greeks on our campus, and a lot of times on nearby campuses. Well, ok, I just wanted to put my to cents in. Good Luck with everything everyone
One and Much Love
DGPhoney~
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