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Ok girl is really sexually active, she has slept with lots of guys casually (which is cool) but suddenly she likes someone a lot so she makes him wait (not cool for the guy).
If you read socio-biologists they claim that its a nesting instinct.
The girl is willing to form quick sexual liaison with someone she doesn't see relationship potential, but when she sees someone that she sees a future with, she waits sexually which forces the male to to invest more time and resources into the relationship.
I think most people realize unconsciously that the more a guy has to invest in the relationship before the "award", sex, the longer he will stay around .. . to a degree.
Also, the increases sexual tension caused by waiting makes the male fixate on the female . . . in other words he thinks about her a lot more.
Personally, I don't find that promiscious girls that turn it into a waiting game just because they see potential with you are very credible.
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