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My advice (from a campus advisor that has underground groups present): If you actually are called in front of judicial, explain to them everything that happened (including the fact that the advisor warned you about this party and that you attempted to back out, etc. Be honest in saying that some sisters went, but they would have to come in to say why). Accept the consequences, and learn the lesson.
Your advisor was correct in stating that it increases liability for you and everyone else if you mix with an unrecognized group. It also gives their organization credibility to exist as an organization, and undermines the authority of your governing council. That creates a situation where you have a group that exists for the sole purpose to party (often in an unsafe manner), but that doesn't have to live up to any of the standards the rest of the Greek community strives for on your campus. THAT situation then begins to undermine your own organization's credibility, and starts eroding the Greek system as a whole (i.e. "What is the benefit of joining that recognized organization? They'll make me work..."). It is a slippery slope.
Depending on what the judicial board charges you with (and your school's judicial procedures), you could suggest consequences like community service or creating an educational presentation about underground organizations to all Greeks. Admitting the mistake without being defensive would help you to avoid unrealistic consequences. And if you do feel the consequences are too harsh (such as a 1 year suspension), I would consider appealing (which would give you the opportunity to offer the community service or presentation).
Aside from that, I would familiarize myself with the judicial procedure so you understand what you are facing.
Keep us posted on what happens!!
PsychTau
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