[Quala67]

Randy - it's not a "rule" per se, just generally acknowledged as a bad idea. I never enforced such a rule, nor did my predecessor. You'd have to ask the current RD on his interpretation/enforcement ideas on this "rule."

I will say that when I was an undergrad, my Big Bro was dating one of my pledge brothers - and other than the two of them, I was the only person who knew of their relationship until he became initated. They stayed together throughout college, but broke up soon after they both graduated. It was frowned upon for a Brother to be dating a pledge. Altho not written into the chapter bylaws, it was a general assumption that it was "bad news."