Oh yes, We have had the same thing happen many times.
New Grads/Alums feel closer to The Actives and try to harbor them from the big bad alums.
One after finally 4 years finds out He is an Alum and Not An Active.
Being Active and Alum are two different things. But, that is not to say as an Alum, You are still not active in The Chapter.
Remember, We are Alums and have been there and done it and trying to pass along information that will help keep the Atives out of pit falls that We all did.
LXA requires an Alum Advisory Board and an ADVISOR or insurance rates go up.
While most Chapters feel they can and will run on their own, who do they call when in need?
I have been doing this 40 years now and amazing how much S--t Chapters get in and dont know what to do!!!!!!!
Dont try to run dailey things but try to advise when you see something that is wrong or be a mediator.
That is all, damn is snowing like hell in KC!