With COB it is very hard to set steadfast rules. We bidded some women who came to no formal events, they'd hung out with sisters and such, knew a lot of women in the house.Other times we had women who came to 5 events, but you never really were able to get to know them, and perhaps didn't bid them. Iliked that we were flexible and not the superficial formal rush. To be honest I like the idea of formal rush NOW, my frosh year however, it would have terrified me and I would never have had the greek experience I've had.
It depends on the person. I really do like the idea of having both,but without the negative connotation.
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