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Originally posted by James
Don't give advice like this. It makes dating cost us a lot more money and forces to invest a lot more time and effort into it . . . 
We like it easy . . ..
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James, I usually agree with you, but not on this one. It's one of the only ways to get men to realize you are looking for more than just sex. And once they know that, they more often than not step up to the plate (and if they don't then you know where you stand before you get involved!). Besides, I don't necessarily advocate that he pay for the date-- I like to switch off. The point is to make it a little more formal and slightly difficult to see you. I mean, everyone wants what they can't have!