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Old 02-06-2005, 05:57 AM
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Originally posted by APhi Diva
Get rid of him. If someone isn't willing to give you what you want and deserve, don't waste your time hoping that they will "come around." If someone wants to be with you, they will be with you. PERIOD. And if they don't, they won't! I know it's easier said than done, but looking back at my pre-marriage relationships I realize I'd have saved myself a lot of heartache if I'd just stopped making excuses for boys!
This is EXCELLENT advice. I think self respect is a big issue. I always told myself I try and be a good person and a good christian. I may not always succeed but I always TRY. So I figured I deserved better than being "strung along" Most anyone does. If he didn't want to commit, it was just his loss
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