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I would also think it might just be the girl your daughter was talking to was new and didn't understand how everything works. Our chapter has our sisters paired up with a PNM for each party. Then we have floaters who go and talk with them throughout the party just randomly. We also encourage people to sit in groups so that the PNMs can meet more sisters and other PNMs. It allows the PNM to become a little more familiar with a sister in our house while still meeting other sisters. That might be what that chapter is attempting but it just didnt' quite work that way with your daughter.
While I think it's important for the PNMs to get to meet lots of people, I think it's also important to be able to feel out what the houses are like based on the sisters that comprise them. I went to one house where I talked with 7 sisters in one party. I never had a chance to really talk to them and get passed the "name/major/hometown" before they had to switch.
Nevertheless, good luck to your daughter! I hope everything works out!
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