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Originally posted by Little E
That is judgemental. How can you know what she is or is not capeable of in regards to her time? I'm not saying it isn't hard, but the realworld isn't any easier.

I said, "could very well", meaning yes there may be exceptions, but in general most new moms do have high demands on their time. Logically, she might not be able to make EVERY single event, and it's the chapter's call as to whether or not a woman with a potentially minimal level of involvement should be selected as a new member.

It all comes down to the level of member participation a chapter wants. And what some are failing to realize is, if the woman plans on keeping her baby, the PREGNANCY turns into a CHILD which is a BIG DEAL. If you want girls to attend a full weeks worth of I Week festivities ending with a sleepover in the house the night before initiation and a party immediately following, it may not be feasible to expect a woman with a child to be at all these things.