As previously said, I think it depends on where you are and what that chapter's attitude is. The year I went through, another chapter on campus bidded a girl that almost every chapter wanted. At Bid Day festivities, someone asked her if the child she was holding was her little brother. She said, "No, he's my child." Three hours later, she was no longer a new member of that sorority.
Keep in mind though, the prevailing attitude of many in Alabama is "OMG, she has a baby and she's not married/in a committed relationship, so she must be a slut." Even if the sisters didn't think that, other people would have, and this campus/town is still small enough for something like that to ruin the reputation of all the girls in a chapter. It may very well be different somewhere else.
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