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I don't know, you guys could just be dating. Does anyone simply date anymore?
I'm in a situation like that right now. I'm dating a boy. We hook up, we hang out, we go on dates. I like him, I’m exclusive, but I'm not his girlfriend. I'd probably freak out if he called me his girlfriend -- just like your guy did. I mean, I might become his girlfriend (or not since I'm moving across the country in 6 months), but the point is that I'm not shutting out the possibility, I just don't want the boyfriend/girlfriend terminology and commitment rearing it's ugly head right this second. Clearly, you aren't cool with the arrangement you have, so you should go find someone who wants a girlfriend.
In the future, make boys take you on dates. Real dates. Suggest dinner, movie or a play on campus. Be so busy that you can’t hang out whenever they want you to. Make them schedule a real event to get on your calendar.
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