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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
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Boys. If you had this girl who liked you, and you knew that you kept hurting her, would you keep her around if you weren't getting anything out of it? (monetarily, sexually, anything at all) If so, why?
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I'm not going to discuss what I've done to women, but I understand this situation well. Guys keep a girl around quite simply because of control and laziness. She falls for it every time and there is no penalty to me. Why not keep someone around you can mess with and walk away from? I even knew girls that did this a lot.
Why, it's going to vary from person to person. What I can say is that she wants me to keep doing it, otherwise she wouldn't invite me back every time. Preying on the weakness is not a bad thing, it's the law of nature. Plus it entertains a guy to be able to do this (control again) and get away with not having to commit to a relationship or anything.
Not going to criticize you since you won't take your own advice, but grow up and try to survive alone for a while. Most people who fall into this category are dependent on others for happiness. Better start fixing that if you don't want to spend the rest of your life alone.