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Old 01-27-2005, 03:35 AM
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I know you wanted a guys' opinion, so sorry in advance! But I have to say that I agree with sugar and spice...you're allowing yourself to remain in the situation for the same reason he is, except you've given him all the control. You need to make the choice to not allow yourself to be treated like this. This may sound harsh and it's not meant to be, but telling him that he shouldn't call you unless he wants to be with you is bs...he already told you he didn't want to be with you by treating you like this. You obviously want someone who will give you more than he is giving you so why are you settling for this? Don't waste your time on a guy who's only willing to give you a half-assed, barely there relationship if what you want is something more. I know it's a hard situation and it's easier for all of us to say what you should do but just know that a lot of people have been in the same or similar situations and gotten out of them just fine! Just my 2 cents...good luck!
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