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Originally posted by bluethunder
B: where is the song for all the ladies who went to school, got an education, got a vocation or career, keep their heads up who made a point NOT to become a "baby's mama"? where's that song at?
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Most people in this situation don't make a point of becoming a baby mama/daddy, some just bite the russian roulette bullet, so to speak, but I get your point
My sister-soror was playing this song when we were on the phone, and I was appalled. That whole term, "on tha streetz" if you will, is not said in a particularly positive light. Its usually the ghetto sista with 50-leven kids, on welfare, with 2+ babydadies. Sorry, but that is not me. My daughter's father uses that term to refer to me and I cringe ever single solitary time, because that is NOT me. I don't take any props for what I do, because I'm supposed to. Regardless of what he does or doesn't do, what I gotta do is irrelevant. I hate when people expecta cookie for living life. That's just plain dumb and triflin. I've heard guys say they didn't have to take care of their kids, so they're special. Excuse my language, but BULLSHIT! You make it, you deal with it, end of discussion.
I get what Fantasia was trying to do, but the title just messed it all up for me, sorry.