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Oh, and to answer the original question.
I think if that post would have been from ktsnake or DeltAlum instead of James, no one would have had any problem with it.
There's a HUGE difference between blaming the victim and holding the victim accountable for what he/she does and says. If we've reached the state where a question or request for clarification (which, it seems to this observer, was no problem to the person being asked for same) is an accusation, we are in seriously deep shit.
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