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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Phrat, I respectifully disagree with your above statement and its implications.
Women should not shoulder the entire burden of entering nefarious contracts with poignant men who specifically state their complications... That just makes a marital relationship jaded and one-sided. Not to mention, misogynistic.
It takes two to tango... Given the evolution of this one topic that started out with myself being a single woman to being a married woman... That fact in and of itself has transformed me, personally.
As far as the other stuff goes, it's nice to see when others are paired off, too... And your the one that started it.
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My most wonderful Soror AKA_MONET
I understand your stance but alas the reality is that it does take 2 to tango but as long as I do not give you indication that my actions do not contridict my statement then where is he in the wrong. Also I would say the same applies to women as well. If a woman does such an action and does not try to lead the man on to anything more than she has said then she is the right. I agree that this mysoginitic behavoir should not be tolerated however it is incumbant on the person that hears this not to enter into it. We(society) give men too much of an out! Period end of story. Any woman I date I want to fufill my spiritual needs and be wonderful like AKA_Monet! But of course as long as we raise our boys with work around contracts and then co-sign for them then
It does not look good.
Sphinxpoet
Loves AKA_Monet like the cool side of the pillow on a summer day!