She might be deceiving you also. I know you are probably great friends but there are some things people just don't share easily . . and rightfully so.
Plus there are levels of self deception. What if she
was hooking up/sleeping with him but decided to stop.
I know a lot of people that would then answer with perfect sincerity that they are not cheating . . . now or it somehow didn't count because of some arcane party rule like it was only once . . . .
She is definitely having an emotional affair with the guy, I am not sure how comforting that would be for the husband to find out.
Isn't an emotional affair just as bad as a physical affair in some ways?
I mean she's not hanging out with you her good friend or others of her good female friends and multiple sisters. She is choosing to spending the night at a guy's house.
I guess she needs a boy's kind of comforting, not a girls . . ..
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Originally posted by OUlioness01
i had a long talk with my friend last night. she's not cheating, but she is finding the first year of marriage to be really hard and she's been confiding in her friend, not her husband. She's been spending a lot more time iwth her husband lately though. I was really really relieved to hear that.
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