[btb87]

Here's another question I think you should ask yourself:

Do you have the time needed to put into various activities?

I have a Soror that holds a position in our chapter. She literally has about 3 jobs (selling real estate, another full-time job, and something else) and she was taking care of her ill mother. She was at 1 Sorority meeting last year. Don't bite off more than you can chew. If you honestly don't think you have the time, then you should look at trying to obtain membership at another time. Believe me, I know that all of the D9 have more than enough t-shirt wearers (and I'm not implying that you would be).