If I have a problem with someone, I say it to their face. I never saw the point of talking behind someone's back just to vent. People will respect you more for that (at least that's what they'll say until your back is turned
Busted some people in the past for talking shit about me. Never really cared though, obviously they don't care enough to speak to me directly about it, so then I never really cared what they had to say...
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