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Originally posted by TonyB06
Apologies if I've missed something here, but you stated twice in your post that this guy is adament about not re-marrying. I assume he's conveyed that to his dates/companions, so what is the issue, here? The woman who thinks she can change a man so determined in his mind, is most likely wasting her time.
I don't understand his male biological clock issue but that's his decision and he has to live with it.
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Tony- You are correct in your understanding... He has conveyed it to his companions (or whatever). And women, being women try to change men all the time... That's just the way it is. It isn't right, but that is what we do... It's the nurturing gene. Or the "I don't give a dayum" gene has not been activated, yet.
Yes, having a child out of wedlock is a decision he would have to live with if he chose that route. You know the strengths and weaknesses of doing something like that, don't you?
I don't care how you slice it, anyone that makes that route for themselves without whole consent of the other party is destined to call him or herself into rough times, generally speaking. Maybe, we hope, it will work out. He can get a woman pregnant, have his child and not have to be married and everything will be copastetic... Cool... Whatever... But in the real world, that hardly EVER happens and there is ALWAYS drama--forever... 'Cuz now, we are talking about another human being's life here...
And you know I have issues with this, too... Search my posts...