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[Color=purple]I think she is taking it in stride because maybe that is the type of relationship she wants. Not every woman wants to get married, and maybe she is looking for someone to have children with but not be "tied down" to them. I am not saying it is right or wrong, just that it is becoming a not so uncommon choice for some. I also don't think there is anything wrong with him going outside of the box. I have dated outside of my race on numerous occassions. Limiting myself to race, age, height, salary, etc requirements, rules out a lot of people. I could have been denying myself the chance to meet my soulmate (although I have since found him and he is black) by ruling him out just because he is white, hispanic, or asian.

The best way to find love is to just be patient and let love find you. He will send you the love of your life in His time, not yours, and hopefully, not before you are ready. Sometimes we think we are ready for love when we are truly not because we have not learned to fully love ourselves. Sometimes we aren't ready because we are too selfish to be selfless. Just pray that when He sends you your mate, you are ready with heart, mind and soul. Hurry up and waitI think she is taking it in stride because maybe that is the type of relationship she wants. Not every woman wants to get married, and maybe she is looking for someone to have children with but not be "tied down" to them. I am not saying it is right or wrong, just that it is becoming a not so uncommon choice for some. I also don't think there is anything wrong with him going outside of the box. I have dated outside of my race on numerous occassions. Limiting myself to race, age, height, salary, etc requirements, rules out a lot of people. I could have been denying myself the chance to meet my soulmate (although I have since found him and he is black) by ruling him out just because he is white, hispanic, or asian.