Okay, I am about to tell you something that you don't want to hear. Are you SURE that you are just being friendly?
Different people have different comfort levels, but I will try to give some examples. Do you sit on your "friends'" laps? Do you kiss them hello? Is sex a common topic of discussion, and do you often use innuendo?
It has been my experience that most girls who complain about this ("All my guy friends are just trying to sleep with me") are giving the guys a reason to talk about them.
I am not saying that you are guilty of this, I am just saying maybe you should stop and take a good look.
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