Sunny,
Personally I worry if what you're getting at is a related to a crisis I had a few months ago. The question is: Can men and women really be friends? I used to think that we could and had lots of guy friends who I loved to hang out with. However, eventually it always seemed that they would come on to me or something would be revealed or happen to ruin that friendship. This isn't a small patterns either - were talking 6 out of 6. I'm starting to think that guys only hang out with girls they are attracted to and are always trying to get somewhere (no matter what they say to the contrary!) The worst part of this is now I'm much more dis-trustful of my boyfriend with regards to his female friends.
I would love to hear some male input on this.
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