It's seems to me like she has a long way to go before she attempts to join anything. She needs to get it together. Thats all I can say about that. When you step to someone, you step correct. There isn't any half stepping going on in Delta. Delta's shouldn't have to go out of their way to get to know anyone. If there is anyone worth knowing, they will have their stuff in order. You accomplishments should speak for you. Your community service, your campus involvement, your reputation, everything. If you have your stuff together, then you should be fine. I don't see what the problem is?!?! Maybe it's just me?!?!?! Sorry if I am coming off wrong, I just can't understand