Sorhor TRSimon,
Your words are so true. Folks you have to use common sense and actively; but in a tactful way, research the organization, do your community service projects, attend the functions, have patience and wait for that organization to take it from there.
P.S. If the organization doesn't select you don't become one of the following:
A stalker
A psychotic person
Annoying to the members
A whinier to others (Your signficant other, friends and family members)
Don't try to latch onto another organization
And don't badmouth the organization because maybe you're not ready for membership.
Remember that membership into a D-9 organization is a luxury, a serious financial obligation and a lifelong commitment.
Serioussigma22