One things I almost didn't do was to actuually make contact. I didn't know how to go about it. Luckily, one soror who was in grad chapter at the time, was so nice and helpful and pointed me in the right direction. Without that I would have been too scared. The whole process of declaring interest seemed so sensitive; one wrong move and you could be done before you even began lol. The only person I was close to that was greek at the time was a part of a reactivation line, so she didn't have to go through the "normal" procedures.
I think that sometimes we become almost too untouchable. I've seen and heard of people looking down on anyone that asks them questions or declares interest. I think a lot of people just don't know the right way to go, and being just an inch more helpful would make all the difference in the world. I know that that soror that helped me really drove home the fact that this organization was where I needed to be.
