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Originally posted by James
ITs just as bad to have your SO think you are cheating on him as it actually happening. At least in terms of the quuality of your relationship.
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So true.
Yes, you should tell her. Just mention that you're worried about her, and want to know what's going on. And do mention what James said, that even if she isn't cheating, that if her husband thinks she is, it's going to damage their relationship, which of course could create worse problems later.
Perhaps she's just been unable to adjust to married life. Perhaps this time she's spending w/ another man is exciting and makes her feel desired. Perhaps nothing has or will happen. But whatever the reason, she needs to be aware of the consequences of her actions.