[ladygreek]

Originally posted by September26libr
Hello....all...my question ....is that I am definetly intrested in becoming a delta...I don;t know of any personally...but when I transferred to the university..I told myself..that if I were to join an organization..it would be the Delta's.To make a long story short...I sought out the delta's..I emailed...different members ..showing my intrest...letting them know that I would be intrested in meeting the members...I even invited them to call me just to chit chat about their organization..instead...I basically got called a nuisance.....and was told to just look out for their flyers around campus of their next events...I just wanted to say it was very dissappointing....I feel like whenever someone takes an intitutive in showing that they are intrested in becoming a part of your organization.. that person should be embraced.. yet..I didn't feel like I was embraces..which was sad for me..since I might have to keep my options open to other organizations that are more enthused about me becoming a member of their organization...yet..that's not where my heart lie..so to all delta's any suggestions...as far as what I should do in the future when showing intrest with the delta's or is it their way of saying they aren't intrested in me...holla!

Your ending this post with holla is distressing to me. Otherwise all I will say is that we do not pursue members--they pursue us. You were told what to do--look for the flyers. It was not personal, it was policy. Enuf said.

ETA: Okay I do have one more thing to say. If you are having second thoughts because of what you described above, then maybe Delta is not for you. I suggest researching other orgs. and taking a deep self-inventory of why you want to join a sorority.