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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
So strivingsf, are you telling me that Serioussssssss sisterfriends "see" posting on this topic on this board a "trial run" so that they can better prepare themselves to answer questions from my Sorors in person?
Personally speaking yes I would consider answering questions on this topic a "trial run" one can never have too much preparation. It also shows a sisterfriend what she really knows and what she doesn't. In a face2face you don't have the opportunity to write a question down, research and then come back and post the answer.
Your answer was only one way of reading my question...
The other way of reading my question is of timing, should one be actively making a decision to want to pursue my Sorority by posting here or should they have already made that decision before EVER posting and just review different topics and be a silent observer until they have made their decision to pursue membership into my Sorority?? Mind you, what do you think my Soror's perspectives are regarding this serioussssssssssssss matter???[/color]
I think it depends on the individual sisterfriend, some are here because they have made their decision and want to interact with memberfriends to gain a greater insight into the life of someone who has already been granted membership.
Are you speaking of sisterfriends responding to this particular topic or sisterfriends who respond to thread on this board?
As far as this misperception goes between my undergraduate Sorors versus my graduate Sorors, should either level of my Sorors be disrespected simply due to age and what they do from a Seriousssssssss sisterfriend actively pursuing membership into my Sorority? Think very long as to how you would answer that questions. Beware... Be careful... Craft your words precisely...
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NO, neither level of memberfriend should be disrespected by someone looking to join that particular organization. Perception can be a dangerous thing because perception leads to an unrealistic reality for that person.