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Originally posted by ADPiZXalum
....for a broken heart. 
How do you get over it?
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What do you want to do? And hopefully not hurt yourself... I mean, do you want to go running out there after your loved one buck nakkid screaming "whyyyyyy"? Or would you rather wrap yourself up in your house in a little ball and cry? I really don't know...
But one thing that worked for me when my past relationships failed is:
It's Spring Cleaning Time--like "I'm gonna wash that man, right outta my hair"...
Get rid of all his or her chit... Burn it if you have to... Set it outside your living space and put a "FREE" sign on it...
Then write a letter to him or her saying how much you hurt and why you think it was wrong for him or her to dump you, etc. Seal that letter up in an envelop--and BURN IT--seriously!... DO NOT SEND IT to them, because it will only hurt worse... Think of it as a "baptism by fire" thing or whatever you have to do to "sterilize" the memory of the past pains this person caused you...
Then go shopping and buy a fantabolous pimp mackidocious outfit for the club tonight with an aphrodisiac pheromonal cologne, groom yourself up to the "nines"--get your hair done, manicure your nails and toes, get a facial--whatever, but pimp yourself out...
Then go to the most happening club in the world in your area, and buy a drink that will get you lit quickly, and flirt your ass off. But go home alone so that you can sleep off your hangover--don't rebound physcially with anyone until you think you're ready... The point is to have "dreams" about having an extremely good time, ALONE without fool that thought you could be dumped...
And I say, within 2 weeks or so, you'll be over it... It usually takes that long if you do it this way... And it doesn't drag on and on... Moreover, you don't have to self-reflect about the moon and stars and why this person did what they did, whatever...
Remember, as my Dad said to me, if you miss the first city bus, there will always be another one to come along that same route...