[strivingsf]

Originally posted by Ideal08

Why do some SFs choose not to use it? In regards to flip-flopping between orgs, if you never said anything, then no one would ever know that you changed your mind. So, SFs, I ask you, how do you view discretion and what does it mean to you? What do you think it means to the organization?
Discretion is the act of deciding what information to disclose and to whom. In addition the information should be given out on an as needed basis.

If you were a legacy, would you tell?
Personally, I believe this is where discretion comes in.

If your blood sister was an AKA perp would you
tell or would you let my Sorors think she was real?
I would talk to my sister and find out 1. why she was engaging in this behavior, 2. talk her out of continuing this act. IF she decided to continue if asked I would not lie.

Have you ever thought about perping? What made you decide against it?
NOPE. It is a constant lie that you would have to uphold, you would always have to be on guard.

In your own words, what is the difference between a necessity and a luxury?
A necessity is something that I must have in order to exist. Oxygen, water, peace of mind and spirit. Luxury is something that I could live without, but would be nice to have.

If you have to ask what the "right" reason is for joining an organization, should you even be thinking about joining?
I think the "right" reason is unique for those seeking to gain membership.

What, if any, is the advantage of doing community service in a group as opposed to doing it alone?
In a group each person brings their own talents and can help focus a vision.