[strivingsf]

I just came back to the board and hope I'm not late in posting on this thread.

Originally posted by Paradise359
Soror come with me...everything's gonna be allllright


I have some questions though...

Why do some SF get the impression that membership is OWED to them?
Some people perceive everything is OWED to them not just membership into a particular organization.

Why do some SF don't feel like they have to work towards the goal that is Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc.?
Although some SF's may have researched the goals of the organization, they may not see how their work will have make a difference

SFs, do you feel like b/c of the easy access to memberfriends via the internet that there is less motivation to do your own research?
Personally, this relates to my answer in question #1. But on a side note, it seems as if many people rely on the web or the people they chat with on the web to give them definitive answers for the quest.

Some people are natural introverts, but their desire to join an organization gives them the confidence or boldness to seek out a member and interact with them on a personal level. And reading a book never hurt.

GC is pretty good with not attracting nutballs worthy of restraining orders but I have been members of other sisterfriend/soror sites & the prevelant attitude is that there is no humility i.e arguing with and or trying to cuss out a member of the organization you wish to be a part of. Why do you think that is?
Personally, it is a lack of politeness and common courtesy. On the different SF/MF sites if you do not agree with what was posted or if the tone of the thread is not something you would tolerate face2face ya have options. delete the post and unsubscribe.

I'm sure I'll be back with more...