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Old 01-13-2005, 07:37 PM
islandgirl21 islandgirl21 is offline
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Why do SFs ask "bold" questions on the internet, but won't DARE ask a Soror in person?

<Sometimes it’s less intimidating to ask via internet or email versus face to face. >

Why do SOME SFs ask some of the most ridiculous questions without searching for the answer, if a answer exists?

<They are looking for the easy way to get the answer. >

Why do SFs 'flip flop' orgs they are so-called interested in?

<Because their interest was not genuine and they were just looking to join any sorority so they could ‘belong.’>

Why do SFs "claim" they want to be a member of XYZ, then become a member and DON'T DO JACK?

<Because they can. If they are not doing jack then they are not being held accountable by their chapter or the people that voted for them.(or sponsored them.)>

Is it worth thousands of dollars to become a member of XYZ, when you can do community service for free?

<I’m not looking to become a member of XYZ sorority to do community service. I’ve been doing community service all my life for free. If someone says they want to join XYZ for community service they are misguided.>

Do you really want to become a member of an organization for the RIGHT reasons, or are you trying to get a man? get attention?

<I can get a man without being in a sorority. I wouldn’t want people to pay attention to me just because I’m in XYZ organization. >

Why is it that SOME SFs purport to know everything there is to know about greekdom, but have yet to become a member?

<If they’re not members then they don’t know everything there is to know about greekdom. >

Why put on a facade to try to get sponsorship?
<Some folks interest in the org is not sincere. >

Why look to an organization to define who you are? Why not have a sense of self BEFORE you join?

<Some people seeking validation externally instead of internally.>