I am probably one of the pickiest eaters alive and I know it annoys my family and friends to death, but nobody really says too much about it anymore.
I have lots of things I don't like which is not all that bad, but even if I have stuff I do like to eat if it doesn't look the way I want it to I will pick stuff out until it looks ok to eat, which is the disgusting part. I try my best to be really discreet about it though I swear!
But judging someone on these things and not hanging out with them b/c of it...how stupid!