About a woman, not being a woman at 20... technically a girl becomes a woman around age 13ish... which its going down to sometimes around age 8... (some anatomy lessons may help you here)
If youre talking maturity, every one matures differently, but its true that females mature faster than males, which may be why women tend to fall for older men... because the ones their own age are mentally younger...
I mean, I have no problem with ages, I dont mind guys my age, but some girls may not find the beer drinking steriotypical college male to be a mental match... but the tad bit older man, may just be a match.
I understand peoples feelings on the whole 'sugar daddy' idea... dating an older man for money, sex etc is wrong, but if youre in it for the right reasons its fine.
DOUBLE STANDARDS ARE A BITCH... which was my motto for the year...
If a woman dates an older man, he is her sugar daddy, or it is 'morally' wrong...
Yet if a man dates an older woman, he's concidered a god...
Explain to me this?
The statutory rape issues about dating someone under 18 can have some double standard issues too... typically aganst males dating females. But as long as you are not having sex, or doing any sexual acts, it isnt statutory rape... seeing as you are in no way raping the minor. There is the corruption of a minor charge that can come into play though... depending on what some people will view as corruption.... (example, if you are dating a 17 year old, and you are say 20, and you take him/her to a party and they drink, or whatever... there you go...)
I know Im rambling, but people make me angry, and I love to argue...
P7A77, dont go thinking that everyone in the world has to have an alterior motive in a relationship! One of my friends is 20 and she married a 35 year old, yes they are married, and no he is not having fantasies of a young girl...
And are you so down on the 'soulmate' thing because you havent found one? I mean, I dont believe in ONE specific person, I think there are many that a person will fit well with... but how do you know that some 22 year old might not find love with a 35 year old?
My sister's parents are 15 years apart. They have been married for over 25 years... And then theres mine, who are less than a year apart, and they argue all the time...
Love dosent know age, color or religion, you cant help who you fall in love with... make mistakes, were human arent we? Eventually we will all find someone...
Omnia Vincet Amor!
Ali
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