[wannabeina]

What did you expect from this forum? Ya'll say "There are no responses" then you say "These responses are rhetoric" now you want me to go away when I try to answer the questions honestly. There is no pleasing this group.

Just for clarification.
If I went to rush and was not extended membership, then I would try again.
If I was barred from membership, then NO I would not go to another sorority.
If I was looking to join a sorority and your sorority was not available to me in any capacity (I'm not talking about being barred from membership) and would never be available to me if I lived on the hilltop of an isolated mountain with only 1 thousand people, then I would review my choices available to me even if it was a local sorority.

If you ask what's the difference between not available(hilltop) and not available(barring membership), then I would say this:
If I applied to this sorority and showed my interest, why would I want to go somewhere else? On the other hand, if the sorority was never available to me, what's wrong with lookiing elsewhere?