33Girl. Well Said
I agree with everything you said. I'm 29 and dont feel much older than 24. I think I will always have a little bit of kid in me. I think the main thing thats changed me is my priorities. Definitely nothings changed with me wanting to have a good time
I think it all depends on your mindset and how you look at things.
James-I have to agree with you on not limiting yourself. I think it all depends though in how we are socialized, how we were brought up, and our culture. I think we all tend to date with what the kind of people(race included) that we are most comfortable with. Not that I am racist but thats just the way society is. During school I can remember certin people went with certin groups. I mean in some countries people in general are comfortable about dating anyone but in this country everyone has a certin profile or criteria. Which I admit is wrong but its the way our society is. My sister laws family is puertorican and I took a trip down there with family two years ago. I have to admit latin women are beautiful. But then thats just one country. When I was in college I took a trip with one of my brothers whos chilean and we went down to Chile, South America and that was an unforgetable trip. The women down there are beautiful in so many ways. You never see a fat girl. Not that appearance is everything but I'm being honest. You dont see it. I think it has to do with the fact that they eat fresh foods unlike most of the stuff we eat is processed.
P7A77: I undertand you have your opinion and I respect it but it seems a bit judgemental. I can agree with you to a point on dating and college. Granted school is not about dating but I dont think that if your struck with cupid *L* that you should walk away. For some people you only meet that one once in your life. Not that I'm saying you should spend every waking moment of school searching for it but hey dont turn it away
I see where your coming from on certin points but I dont necesarily agree with everything your saying. Like 21 year olds wanting to date 14 or 15 year olds. I mean I know where your coming from but to me thats not a very good example. Isnt there a law about dating people under 18? LOL I mean I think a better example of a positive relationship that worked out is Christopher Reeve.(10 years apart I think) How about Michael Douglas and Katherine Zeta Jones. Granted shes at least 30 but there is some diff there. Granted there are people that have lifestyles that will never work with certin people. Thats a given. Most Women dont want sit at home couch potatoes that are unemployed. Granted. But that doesnt mean that a 20 year old girl is going to be doomed if shes dates a 30 year old guy. Its highly unlikely but if it works that doesnt mean shes any less of a person.
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