The mods all agree that topics regarding membership selection should stay off the boards, and that's why this discussion was removed from the forum.

It wasn't deleted, it was just removed. It's not a matter of abusing mod privilieges. It's about common sense and respect for the Fraternity's membership policies.

bruinaphi does not officially speak for Alpha Phi, but I think her answer was sufficient. It's a shame that you didn't think the same. You're not going to get a straight answer simply because you're not an Alpha Phi.

I have a feeling that this too shall be removed. Sorry.