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Arrrgghh, the awful marriage prep weekend....yes, our was a weekend-no other choice-and it was in a secluded retreat in a part of NC, and we weren't allowed to leave!! It was awful. Day 1 consisted of, describe your feelings as a color. Or food. They told us, that instead of saying, I am angry-you're supposed to say, I feel red/I feel apple/ I feel whatever. It was hell!!
It got worse from there. I actually cried on Day 2 because we couldn't leave and it was so miserable there. We did discuss valid issues on Day 2: sex, kids, finances, arguing styles, blah blah blah. In my opinion, you should be discussing these things already!! If you can't talk about these things without a weekend to get you to do it, you might want to think twice about running down the aisle.
We had no choice in doing this though, it was required by my church.
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DELTA GAMMA
My Sisters Are My Anchors!
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