Hey Trace-
I think it is kinda an inside knowledge thing- I worked with this lady on Special Olympics for a year- kind of felt like she was a really special person- I really liked her and she was much older than me. Two years later, I get this list of all the XO's in my state and .. her name was there. I knew it in my heart. Don't know how the men can tell but I really think women can!

luv sue!!!
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